Instructions for Life
Posted: December 29, 2009 at 8:05 pmThanks to Kevin Collins for sending me this for New Year:
A Father’s Instructions for Life — (From Life’s Little Instruction Book, by H. Jackson Brown Jr.) with a slight combination of topics.
- Compliment three people each day.
- Watch a sunrise at least once a year.
- Over tip breakfast waitresses.
- Look people in the eye.
- Say “thank you” a lot and say “please” a lot.
- Live beneath your means.
- Buy whatever kids are selling on card tables in their front yards.
- Treat everyone you meet as you want to be treated.
- Donate two pints of blood every year.
- Make new friends but cherish the old ones.
- Keep secrets.
- Don’t waste time learning the “tricks of the trade,” instead learn the trade.
- Admit your mistakes.
- Be brave. Even if you’re not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
- Choose a charity in your community and support it generously with your time and money.
- Read the Bill of Rights.
- Use credit cards only for convenience, never for credit.
- Never cheat.
- Give yourself a year and read the Bible cover to cover.
- Learn to listen. Opportunity sometimes knocks very softly.
- Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.
- Pray not for things, but for wisdom and courage.
- Never take action when you’re angry.
- Have a good posture. Enter a room with purpose and confidence.
- Don’t discuss business in elevators. You never know how may overhear you.
- Never pay for work before it’s completed.
- Don’t gossip.
- Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
- When facing a difficult task, act as though it is impossible to fail. If you’re going after Moby Dick, take along the tartar sauce.
- Don’t spread yourself too thin. Learn to say no politely and quickly.
- Don’t expect life to be fair.
- Never underestimate the power of forgiveness.
- Instead of using the word “problem” try substituting the word “opportunity.”
- Never walk out on a quarrel with your spouse.
- Regarding furniture and clothes; if you think you’ll be using them five years or longer, buy the best you can afford.
- Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
- Street musicians are a treasure. Stop for a moment and listen; then leave a small donation.
- When faced with a serious health problem, get at least three medical opinions.
- Wage war against littering.
- After encountering inferior service, food or products, bring it to the attention of the person in charge. Good mangers will appreciate knowing.
- Don’t procrastinate. Do what needs doing when it needs to be done.
- Get your priorities straight. No one ever said on their death bed, “Gee, if I’d only spent more time at the office.”
- Don’t be afraid to say “I’m sorry.”

